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D2 SOUTHERN UTAH LIFE www.thespectrum.com Sunday, January 20, 2008 The Spectrum Daily News Anniversaries Wedding Announcements Birthdays 1 vvi, V7 1 CEDAR CITY Bonzo 50th Suzanne Kirtley and Kenneth C. Bonzo were married January 18, 1958 in the Cedar City, Rock Church. They were sealed in the St.George LDS Temple on January 29, 1963. They celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary on Friday January 18, 2008. They are the parents of 4 children Sue Ann, Donna Rae, Howard and Gordon.

Kenneth and Suzanne have 17 grandchildren and 4 great-grandchildren. LAVERKIN LEWIST0N Larkin Nuckles Nicole Larkin and Josh Nuckles were married Saturday, December 28, 2007 in the Salt Lake Temple. An Open House will be held in their honor on Saturday, January 26 at the LaVerkin 3rd Ward Chapel from 6 to 8 p.m. The parents of the bride are Eric and Bonnie Nielsen of Lewiston, Utah. The parents of the groom are Margaret Nuckles of LaVerkin, and Les and Jan Nuckles of San Clemente, Calif.

The couple will reside in Logan, Utah. ST. GEORGE Duncan 90th Louie Barkdull Duncan was born January 29, 1918 in Meadow Utah. Louie will cele- brate her 90th birthday with friends and family at an Open House given in her honor by her children Joan and Jim Brooks of Las Vegas, Kathryn and Max Rose of St. George; Jim and Peggy Duncan of St George and Shirlee and Larry Bray of Santa The Open House will be Saturday, January 26th, 2008 from one until two p.m.

at the 400 E. 100 South chapel cultural hall. Everyone is invited! SANTA CLARA Ence 86th Our Mother Gertrude Worthen Ence is celebrating her 86th birthday. She was born January 23, 1922 in St. George, Utah and has lived most of her life in Santa Clara.

She married Vendon Pershing Ence October 17, 1938. Together they raised seven children Randy, Venda, Connie, Claudia, Richard, Michael, and Darren, who have given her 22 grandchildren, 27 greatgrandchildren and 2 great-great grandchildren. We love you for your good example, kindness, cheerfulness and the love you have given us through out our lives. Happy Birthday! Love your Family. CEDAR CITY Esplin 75th Ken W.

Esplin celebrated his 75th birthday Friday January 18th, 2008. He was born January 18, 1933 in Hurricane to William H. (Bill) Esplin and Vinona Spendlove. He married Dayle Stevens ST. GEORGE Cram 50th Gary and Betty (Dallin) Cram will celebrate their 50th wedding anniversary on January 29, 2008.

They were married January 29, 1958 in Las Vegas. They have 7 children Von, Debbie, Jerald, Karl, Sonya, Julie and Bryan 25 grandchildren and 4 great-grandchildren. A reception will be held in their honor Saturday, January 26, 2008 from 5 to 9 p.m. with dancing from 7 to 9 p.m. at the Pine View Stake Center, 595 North 2450 East, St.

George. Gary retired from the city of St. George. Betty has been employed with various job for 50 years. Both love to spend time, with family and grandchildren.

All friends and family of Betty and Gary are welcome to come out and reminisce. Dreaming about a new Career? Be Your Dream, Let us help! careerbuilder www.thespectrum.com LAYT0N Curtis Graff Megan Michelle Curtis and Curtis John Graff will be married Saturday, January 26 at the Dixie Convention Center. A reception will be held in their honor that evening from 6 to 7:30 p.m. at the Dixie Convention Center, Garden Room. The parents of the bride are Vardell and Cindy Curtis of St.

George. The parents of the groom are DeAnn Graff, Raymond arid Deborah Truscott, Brent Greenwell of Summit. her attention is elsewhere. Choose your battles wisely: The older I get, the more I realize the veracity of this saying. Not fighting over issues or behaviors that have little lasting importance leaves you the energy to focus on what truly impacts your child.

Just as with nagging, if you constantly battle with your children, they will tune you out A good rule of thumb to choose your battles is this: will the incident still matter in a few days? If not, let it go. Say what you are going to do, and then do See PARENTING on D6 Parenting in a Nutshell: Keys to enjoy parenting more this year off small incidents like so much spilled milk. Carry that same attitude with you every day. Nag less: Nagging less falls into the "Easier said than done" category, but is well worth the effort I resolved to follow my own advice and am much happier and calmer as a result. Of course, so is everyone else in my family.

Yes, I still remind my son about what he needs to do, but I do it with a smile as often as I can. How will you know when your guidance and teaching has transmorphed into nagging? When your child's eyes glaze over and proves challenging Doreen Nagle Gannett News Service You adore your children, but, oh, that parenting thing can be trying at times. Need some ideas to make your number one job more enjoyable? You're not alone! What works best? In reviewing the highlights of your parenting touchstones from the past year, some approaches, ideas and strategies worked more to your liking than others. Perhaps the vacation at the lake turned out to be such a happy memory because you determined to laugh Services Botox Restylane ffrTnwTfnTm' 1 Duncan Ence K2 Esplin Stewart May 7th, 1960. They have 3 children Juli, Steve, Tracy 15 grandchildren.

Dad, you are our favorite "Bionic Man." We thank God for his blessings of renewed health given to you recently. Your loving family. CEDAR CITY Stewart 80th Velma Stewart celebrated her 80th birthday on Monday January 14, 2008. She was born January 14, 1928 in Fairview, to Willis and Bessie Mower. She married Owen Stewart on August 7, 1946 in Fairview.

They were later sealed in the Los Angeles LDS Temple on March 23, 1963. They have 5 children Sharon Clarke, Karen Rugg, JoAnn Adams, Elaine North, Janice Steffensen 22 grandchildren 35 great grandchildren, with 3 on the way. The family held a birthday party in her honor. Velma enjoys cooking, reading and spending time with her family. Us: ER wait calmer fare, a man who I had thought was asleep yelled out "What are you doing, lady? I'm watching that" Muttering an apology, I turned the set back to squabbling neighbors and the loud-mouthed judge, but turned it down a bit A woman in another corner, who couldn't even see the TV set piped up, "I can't hear it!" So I turned the volume back up, and sat down, overruled.

I reminded myself that these other people were in pain, or also worried over loved ones. So if the familiar sound of "Judge Mathis," which was then followed by "The People's Court," was a source of comfort who was I to judge them? An hour later, when the two avid watchers left the room, I got up and turned off the TV Blessed silence. Half an hour later, we were taken back to a treatment room. The shift changed, and we waited some more. As Linda dozed on and off, I got up, stiff from sitting through the night and started to do some yoga stretches.

In the relative peace of the moment, I felt certain she would be fine. It was after 7 a.m. before a doctor arrived. After getting x-rays, an ultrasound, and blood work, my sister was finally given some pain medication and we checked out two hours later. Thankfully, all her tests came out normal.

The cause of the pain was not found, so she'll have to go to a specialist for a follow-up appointment. After being up all night my mind was awake, even though my body was ready to fall asleep. Now that the emergency was over, I told Linda we should pretend that we'd flown to Paris, and were just jetlagged after a seven-hour flight Now that's a healing thought Dinah Eng is a freelance writer. She can be reached at betweenustwoearthlink.net MS- Jew Year's All patients seen by Board Certified Dermatologist KARL TRIMBLE, MD SKIN CANCER MANAGEMENT Surgerv Resolution This Years Resolution Get In Shape Lose Weight Join A Walking 1 warwaffiraa 1 Club Cosmetic Reduce Stress Friendly Staff Committed to Quality Personalized Care NEW PATIENTS WELCOME 435-674-3552 1-77-574-3552 Bloomington Executive Suites St. George (Across from Wal-Mart) www.dixiedermatology.com hWlMlliH.WiWli.

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I never realized how quickly the ER can fill up on a Friday night, and how few medical personnel are on duty after midnight. It took an hour before my sister was registered, and the paperwork signed. And it took an additional two and a half hours before she was taken back to a treatment room and seen by a nurse. We live in a society of instant gratification, and having to wait when you, or a loved one, is in pain is not easy. Sitting in an ER for hours makes you grateful for every moment of pain-free health.

People's values come to the surface quickly. At one point, everyone had to listen to an elderly man coughing up a storm. No one wanted to sit near him, but when he asked for help getting to the bathroom, two people immediately moved to aid him. When conditions are less than ideal, you have to come up with makeshift solutions. My sister said lying down would ease her pain, but ER policy dictated that all patients remain seated in the waiting area until they were called in for treatment Improvising, I shoved three chairs together in a corner of the room so that she could at least get horizontal.

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